
Don't get me wrong, she is not a rough woman, she however certainly does enjoy a little role play every once in a while. She thinks that it helps her spice up her relationship with her husband in bed. Then again, if they were real, they would need some variety: they would have been together for an extremely long time. So some role play may occasionally be very fun. By being observant and making notes of daily occurrences, we can find lots of material for our stories. For example, if you are doing presentations on customer service, you encounter examples of good, bad, and, hopefully, superior customer service on a regular basis. Our own lives and experiences offer a wealth of stories. Just remember, that the audience will enjoy hearing about your struggles and failures more than your successes.
For a story to be successful, the plot starts with a status quo, moves into the crisis, and following the climax, nothing is ever the same again. A story provides the perfect venue for making a point, imparting a life message, or teaching a lesson. Comedian Rodney Dangerfield was best known for his self-deprecating humor in his stand up acts, with his famous line "I get no respect." Watch modern-day self-deprecator, Conan O'Brien, as an example of how to make fun of yourself. Conan frequently makes fun of his own hair, his paleness and even his jokes that flop. Tell funny, self-deprecating stories about yourself. People love stories. Another techniques is to have a conversation piece as part of your attire-a piece of jewelry with an interesting back-story, for example. You do the kindness of allowing someone to notice something to talk about and then you can tell the interesting and hopefully humorous story behind the item.
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